Sanctity of Human Life 2025
It has been just over 40 years since our 40th President,
Ronald Wilson Reagan, issued the proclamation (found a little further in this post.) It deserves another read!
Reagan’s decree is as true now as it was then. Other than, sadly, the number of abortions is wholly more vast now than it was in 1984. However, we still count among the many positive strides our nation has made towards protecting human life, this proclamation as significant and it continues to be celebrated and exemplified
in our families and churches each year.
Before Reagan’s proclamation please see the link to the story of Emily and her mother from Catholic All Year (catholicallyear.com) from June of 2022. I encourage you to read the brief story titled “A Story of Teen Pregnancy, Grandparents’ Prayers, and Me.” It really touched on the way pregnancy, abortion, and motherhood affect so many lives in so many ways and remain a part of a family’s history.
Declaration for Life-
“The values and freedoms we cherish as Americans rest on our fundamental commitment to the sanctity of human life……The first of the “unalienable rights” affirmed by our Declaration of Independence is the right to life itself, a right the Declaration states has been endowed by our Creator on all human beings — whether young or old, weak or strong, healthy or handicapped.
Since 1973, however, more than 15 million unborn children have died in legalized abortions — a tragedy of stunning dimensions that stands in sad contrast to our belief that each life is sacred. These children, over tenfold the number of Americans lost in all our Nation’s wars, will never laugh, never sing, never experience the joy of human love; nor will they strive to heal the sick, or feed the poor, or make peace among nations. Abortion has denied them the first and most basic of human rights, and we are infinitely poorer for their loss.
We are poorer not simply for lives not led and for contributions not made, but also for the erosion of our sense of the worth and dignity of every individual. To diminish the value of one category of human life is to diminish us all. Slavery, which treated Blacks as something less than human, to be bought and sold if convenient, cheapened human life and mocked our dedication to the freedom and equality of all men and women. Can we say that abortion — which treats the unborn as something less than human, to be destroyed if convenient — will be less corrosive to the values we hold dear?
We have been given the precious gift of human life, made more precious still by our births in our pilgrimages to a land of freedom. It is fitting, then, on the anniversary of the Supreme Court decision in Roe v. Wade that struck down State anti-abortion laws, that we reflect anew on these blessings, and on our corresponding responsibility to guard with care the lives and freedoms of even the weakest of our fellow human beings.
Now, Therefore, I, Ronald Reagan, President of the United States of America, do hereby proclaim Sunday, January 22, 1984, as National Sanctity of Human Life Day. I call upon the citizens of this blessed land to gather on that day in homes and places of worship to give thanks for the gift of life, and to reaffirm our commitment to the dignity of every human being and the sanctity of each human life.
In Witness Whereof, I have hereunto set my hand this 13th day of January, in the year of our Lord nineteen hundred and eighty-four, and of the Independence of the United States of America
the two hundred and eighth.”
~ Ronald Reagan
Give Thanks!
Have a blessed Thanksgiving from Next Step Pregnancy Services. May you know how truly thankful we are for your unfailing loyalty and faith in our clinic and all we stand for. Please take a moment to check out this very short video! https://tinyurl.com/GiveThanksNS ~ Heather Vasquez, Executive Director, Next Step Pregnancy Service |
For it is in Giving that we Receive
As we edge ever closer to celebrating with family and friends around the dinner table and give thanks for our health, our family, our homes, our delicious meal, and our country (as I will be) I pray that each of us, in some small way, keeps in the back of our hearts, those that are perhaps not celebrating. Those who may be or feel alone and question what there is to be thankful for.
Late last year Next Step Pregnancy Services began offering Abortion Pill Reversal (APR) services. This is a process sought out when a woman takes the first of two pills to end her pregnancy and realizes she has made a terrible mistake. Can she go back? In some cases, many in fact, yes, she can. That’s where Next Step comes in.
These services include tangible support, a prescription medication of progesterone (a natural hormone produced during pregnancy that nourishes baby), and ultrasounds to check on pregnancy progress. It is a bright beacon of hope. The brightest. While we are so very blessed to have this service to offer like any medical process there are no guarantees. And while there have been successes, 68% success rate in fact, not every story ends that way. I would like to share one of those.
This past year a woman found us and was en route driving to us (~ 2 hour drive) even before confirming we could help her. She was in the military and felt pressure to take the abortion pill from not only the father of the baby but her coworkers as well. Her one friend helped her find us to see if there was a chance to save her baby.
She had gotten the pill online and never had an ultrasound done. We didn’t know the exact age of baby – possibly 7 or 8 weeks? She was in her late 30s and had never been pregnant. She was horrified she may have ruined her only chance at having a baby.
Sadly, it was a long drive home for this woman. We could not tell her she had a viable pregnancy. But we could tell her she was no longer pregnant – she had likely miscarried earlier in her pregnancy – about 2 weeks prior. We provided as much tangible and emotional support as we could.
“At least I don’t have to live knowing I killed my baby.”
While this story still ends on a sad note – I am very thankful we could give this little bit of comfort.
Because please know, the very real emotional trauma and heartbrokenness of knowing you caused the death of your unborn child can never be undone. Forgiven yes! But not forgotten, Although in her case her baby was still lost. She was not. Not to the trauma of abortion.
Being able to be with her during this time, to hold her, to listen to her, to know her and let her know we saw her was Christ’s work and Will expressed and shared. Thank you for your continual support. We are so very thankful for each and every one of you. Have a blessed Thanksgiving.
Rendezvous with Destiny
“If you’re going to pray for potatoes, you should have a hoe in your hand.”
In that way we must be like those in Nehemiah’s time who “did their work with one hand and held a weapon in the other” (Nehemiah 4:17).
As we enter into the last few days before what folks are calling the “most important election of our lifetime,” (Christianity Today, 07/26/2024, K. Schiess) I happen to come across what is considered one of the most important speeches given in the last century, spoken on October 27th, 1964 just ahead of the Presidential campaign of Goldwater and Johnson. It was given by actor turned public speaker and later our 40th President, Ronald Reagan. It is a very lengthy but highly effective speech now and when it was given 60 years ago. But it was the last bit that stood out to me as not only profound but extremely relevant in 2024.
The address touches on many things but the most important was about our freedoms. And our responsibilities in upholding those freedoms. When Reagan delivered this keynote there was a lot of fear and uncertainty surrounding the current US relations with the Soviet Union. But we can easily replace certain words and ideas to fit wholly into our current moral ideologies.
Thank you for your continued support for Next Step Pregnancy Services and its many clients, client families, and stories. Informed consent is freedom. Advocacy for the unborn is empowerment. Protecting those who are most vulnerable is our charge as Christians.
Here is an excerpt.
“Those who would trade our freedom for the soup kitchen of the welfare state have told us they have a utopian solution of peace without victory. They call their policy “accommodation.” And they say if we’ll only avoid any direct confrontation with the enemy, he’ll forget his evil ways and learn to love us. All who oppose them are indicted as warmongers. They say we offer simple answers to complex problems. Well, perhaps there is a simple answer – not an easy answer but simple: If you and I have the courage to tell our elected officials that we want our national policy based on what we know in our hearts is morally right.
We cannot buy our security, our freedom from the threat of the [bomb] (or imprisonment for daring to pray for and defend our fellow brothers and sisters in the womb) by committing an immorality so great as saying to a billion human beings now enslaved behind the Iron Curtain,(or in the womb) “Give up your dreams of freedom because to save our own skins, we’re willing to make a deal with your slave masters.”
Alexander Hamilton said, “A nation which can prefer disgrace to danger is prepared for a master, and deserves one.”
Now let’s set the record straight. There’s no argument over the choice between peace and war, but there’s only one guaranteed way you can have peace – and you can have it in the next second – surrender.
Admittedly, there’s a risk in any course we follow other than this, but every lesson of history tells us that the greater risk lies in appeasement, and this is the specter our well-meaning liberal friends refuse to face, that their policy of accommodation is appeasement, and it gives no choice between peace and war, only between fight or surrender. If we continue to accommodate, continue to back and retreat, eventually we have to face the final demand, the ultimatum. And what then?
Someday when the time comes to deliver the final ultimatum, our surrender will be voluntary, because by that time we will have been weakened from within spiritually, morally, and economically. [He] believes this because from our side [he’s] heard voices pleading for “peace at any price” or as one commentator put it, he’d rather “live on his knees than die on his feet.” And therein lies the road to war, because those voices don’t speak for the rest of us.
You and I know and do not believe that life is so dear and peace so sweet as to be purchased at the price of chains and slavery. If nothing in life is worth dying for, when did this begin – just in the face of this enemy? Or should Moses have told the children of Israel to live in slavery under the pharaohs? Should Christ have refused the cross? Should the patriots at Concord Bridge have thrown down their guns and refused to fire the shot heard ’round the world?
The martyrs of history were not fools, and our honored dead who gave their lives to stop the advance of the Nazis didn’t die in vain. Where, then, is the road to peace? Well it’s a simple answer after all.
You and I have the courage to say to our enemies, “There is a price we will not pay.” “There is a point beyond which they must not advance.
” Winston Churchill said, “The destiny of man is not measured by material computations. When great forces are on the move in the world, we learn we’re spirits – not animals.” And he said, “There’s something going on in time and space, and beyond time and space, which, whether we like it or not, spells duty.”
You and I have a rendezvous with destiny.
We’ll preserve for our children this, the last best hope of man on earth, or we’ll sentence them to take the last step into a thousand years of darkness.
He (our Lord) has faith that you and I have the ability and the dignity and the right to make our own decisions and determine our own destiny. Thank you very much.”
October is Respect Life Month!
Dear friend in Christ, October is Respect Life Month!
“So comes snow after fire, and even dragons have their endings.’ ~ J.R.R Tolkien
And so we enter into the season of rest. A time of stillness, thanksgiving, and peace. The heat and eagerness of Summer burns off, hearts and minds turn toward home. Here at Next Step Pregnancy Services we turn inwardly in prayer for the many clients and families served, and the many new lives welcomed into loving yet uncertain arms.
One of the services we offer that I am most proud of is APR, abortion pill reversal. This simple offering, which has filled those who oppose protections for the unborn with such vitriol, is in fact the one that most embodies the hope that is the “stone the builders rejected” (Matt 21:42)
The very act when a woman realizes that she does not want to abort her child and reaches out with a desire to reverse the process is faith personified. And by the Grace of God and with your support Next Step Pregnancy can answer. Answer with hope. with a prescription for Progesterone. With an ultrasound, without judgment or sentence, with compassion and alliance. Faith answered by faith. That’s what we bring.
The month of October is Respect Life Month. A month to recognize, celebrate, and renew our commitment to those women, men, and children affected by the past or present sin of abortion.
I am reaching out to you, my fellow soldiers, this month to ask you to renew your commitment to your local pregnancy care clinic, be it Next Step Pregnancy Services or otherwise, and continue to strengthen our ability to say yes to every person who comes to us seeking care.
Next Step Pregnancy Services is the only Accredited 501(c)3 Pro-Life clinic straddling the multiple communities, neighborhoods, and families between Everett and downtown Seattle. We are 100% donor reliant not receiving nor requesting state or federal funding. Our medical staff offer pregnancy testing, early diagnostic ultrasounds, STI testing and treatment, Reproductive Loss Grief care, maternity, newborn, and toddler supplies, and Abortion Pill Reversal care and sonograms.
With your continued support and prayers we plan to add Cycle Charting education, and possibly more services for young women and teens.
We want to impart this to them; “I am the Daughter of the King, who is not moved by the world, for my God is with me, and goes before me. I do not fear because I am His.” ~
Heather Vasquez, Executive Director
heather@nextstepnw.com / nssupport.org
“Fallen man is not simply an imperfect creature who needs improvement: he is a rebel who must lay down his arms.”― C.S. Lewis, Mere Christianity
As Summer fades into Autumn, I am reminded of the many beauties and enjoyments of the season. Not least of which involves good food, music, and family. Also on the near horizon is our nation’s next Presidential election.
Recently I attended a two-day retreat with several other life-affirming clinics of the PNW. Much of the time focused on this simple question; “Who do we serve?”
And further, “Who do you think needs our services?” To be frank, it may not be who you think.
I could quote statistics, “Lies, damned lies, and statistics!” Churchill supposedly said, but I won’t.
Today’s young woman needs to feel educated, confident, and above all – in control. I get that.
An excerpt from the article, “Abortion: A failure to Communicate”, says this, “many young women of today have developed a self-identity that simply does not include being a mother. It may include going through college, getting a degree, obtaining a good job, even getting married someday; but the sudden intrusion of motherhood is perceived as a complete loss of control over their present and future selves. It shatters their sense of who they are and will become, and thereby paralyzes their ability to think more rationally or realistically.” (Swope, Paul F, Abortion: A Failure to Communicate, April 1998)
Boom. That spoke to me.
I begin to see who it is we need to be serving. Who it is our mission promise is for. Our mission is our emotional promise to our clients. Do our current services deliver the trust and confidence that our clients need to build relationships with us? Are we reaching those young women before an unpanned pregnancy? Or are we serving women who want to carry to term? If the modern young woman does not identify as a mother (yet) then why would she consider a place like Next Step Pregnancy Services as a place to turn to for any reproductive care, be it STI testing, cycle charting, or otherwise?
We say all the time that we meet women where they are. But do we? Our services and work must begin to reflect the needs of those we want to build relationships with.
“Modern American women of childbearing age do not view the abortion issue within the same moral framework as those of us who are pro-life activists. While we may not agree with how women currently evaluate this issue, the importance of our mission and the imperative to be effective demand that we listen, that we understand, and that we respond to the actual concerns of women who are most likely to choose abortion.” (Swope, Paul F.)
“Assuming that women, especially those facing the trauma of an unplanned pregnancy, will respond to principles we see as self-evident within our own moral framework” is not how we meet them and how we love them.
I said earlier that young women today want to feel educated, confident, and in control. Those emotions translate to me as; informed, brave, and capable. And I understand that. I want that for my two daughters as well. That’s our assignment.
What does love look like? It has the hands to help others. It has the feet to hasten to the poor and needy. It has eyes to see misery and want. It has the ears to hear the sighs and sorrows of men. That is what love looks like.”
― St. Augustine
Just in time for October which is Respect Life Month! This month especially we ask for your prayers as we discern services, welcome in new clients, and continue to strive for medical and ethical excellence in our clinic – ahead of possible WA state leadership changes.
~ Heather
Oh What a Night!
The annual Next Step Pregnancy Services Gala was a beautiful night full of memorable moments, passionate defense of life, and the world premiere of the Next Step video showcasing the day to day work you, dear friends, support! In case you missed it – take a look!
Click the link below! *Pictured – Scarlett Vasquez with one of the many scrumptious desserts from the event!*
What Makes a Woman Abortion Vulnerable?
Its a hard question. And can have so many answers. Working with the myriad of women we see at Next Step Pregnancy Services that question comes up on an almost daily basis. In talking with other pregnancy resource clinics and centers we were told that there is a certain criteria. However, I’ll be honest, I’m not so sure using this criteria is the most effective way to meet our clients.
Let me explain. Here are some of those bullet points;
- Still in school (H.S./college/grad)
- Between 17 and 26 years old
- Father of baby in favor of abortion
- Parents in favor of abortion
- History of abortion
- Financial pressure
- Single
When I first realized I was pregnant with my first child, a daughter, I met 5 of the 7 criteria listed above. Through God’s grace my parents were prolife not just in words but in actions as well, even when it was this close to home. But I was young, still in school, the father was, let’s just say indifferent, I had little to no money, and was in all senses of the word – single.
So was I abortion vulnerable? According to Merriam-Webster the word vulnerable means;1: capable of being physically or emotionally wounded 2: open to attack or damage.
In one sense I was, but not solely because of any of those listed bullet points. Those were and are a factor for many, many of our clients. That is a fact.
But for me, I was now not only a vessel for the life growing within me and her sole protector and source of growth and prosperity, but I had become a co-creator with God to give life.
Something that opened me, as well as my child, up to attack. So yes, I was vulnerable. I had the choice to leave myself potentially open to being wounded and, despite family, alone or I could choose to abort and start again. I chose life. And there is not a day that goes by I do not think of my beautiful daughter, Maria, and the path her birth put me on.
So when we say abortion vulnerable woman – it can mean many many things. And we need to be open and willing to hear those reasons, those barriers, those uncertainties. And be there for that woman come what may.
If anything I have said has resonated with you and you want to help Next Step continue to thrive then I ask you to please consider supporting our mission. In whatever way you are able.
And I encourage you to join us this year for our annual Gala – our one large fundraiser – to keep Next Step a place vulnerable women can come to in their time of need.
This week is the last chance to purchase tickets to this event.
Dinner, drinks, a silent auction, our famous dessert auction, the world premier of the first Next Step Pregnancy Services video, and a moving and transformative talk by our guest speaker Dr. William Lile, the Prolife Doc. Someone who has seen firsthand the humanity within the womb.
Please register here for our event https://nssupport.org/gala2024/
Saturday September 14th, at Holy Rosary in Edmonds.
Doors open at 5:30p – tickets on sale until 9/6
2024 Gala! Register Now!
Register at https://nssupport.org/gala2024/ to save your spot for our annual Gala and Silent Auction
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